Wednesday, May 27, 2009

Life in the first one year of marriage..

Every individual has loads of aspirations as to how his professional and personal life should nurture into.I too had a lot of dreams of how my future husband would be,his thoughts,his dreams,his family..today when i look back at those thoughts i feel blessed for the man in my life Murali is a gem of a person,the reason behind me to start off a blog.He says it would encourage you to organise ur thought process and keep you inspired and motivated.

Life changes a lot after marriage for both individuals and especially if you have to be far away from your near and dear ones in a desi land...every day is a surprise ,a fun filled action packed thriller.Every day you realise more about yourself as well your dear soulmate.One needs to respect each others personal space,values,family traditions.

All married couples should learn the art of battle as they should learn the art of making love. Good battle is objective and honest--never vicious or cruel. Good battle is healthy and constructive, and brings to a marriage the principle of equal partnership.This is a very true statement,its not who emerges victorious but the reason for the battle that should enlighten our life.

Friendship should be basis of a marriage,the moment you accept your mate as your best friend you tend to appreciate every small virtue of them.Just chill and go about life like Dil Chahtha Hein...and i am sure atleast once ina day you would think of the song Janne Kyun Log Pyaar Karthe Hein,Janne Kyun,Jaane Kyun..but beleieve me its a lovely feeling in the heart..

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